This is something I often ask people; sometimes because I'm curious, sometimes because (to me) they don't quite make sense right away (but I'm kinda slow on the uptake

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To start...mine is (I think) quite obvious. Several of my alters are OBSESSED with the band Atreyu--for a few years, it honestly kept me alive. Whenever I wanted to scream or hurt someone or myself, I'd jam out to Atreyu for a bit and soon be totally calm...I swear if they could make Atreyu's effectiveness into a pill, there would be no more anger (for me at least)

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