Dear Genn,

All I can do is offer you some support. I know what it is like to have the argument going on in your head and to feel the most anxious winning an argument you are desperate to win yourself.

I bribe my axiousness when I have to leave the house to go out to the doctor; I promise some chocolate, a special sandwich, or some other treat. I guess I am talking to my 3 yr old alter...she always comes out when it's time to say no but I don't know how to...just reading and responding is turning lights on for me regarding did...

I'm not suggesting you bribe your alters, I guess I'm wondering (and please forgive me if this is way out of line because this is new for me), if you can have a round table conference with them? I do with mine at times and we do reach conclusions that suit everyone at times, especially at important times,

Best of luck with the new job and the plusses it brings to your life,

Rhiannon