I am here to introduce myself and to get some answers. My situation. Is like many it involves things that my mother in law did over 30 years ago. My husband can not get. Past it....so we live with it every day. Will try to be breif. Years. Ago my husbanbds father died very suddenly at age. 49. When he died mil sold his business. And everything associated with him was gone. Practically over night. My husband is the oldest and was closer to hisb dad than any of the kids. Dads death was profound to say the least. My hubsband had only been married for 3 years at this time and had a little bbaby....now we have ust lost dad,our job and everything we knew that was right. Mom in law is now free to be just as nasty as she wants. 30 years later it continues and its like it appened yesterday. We have had to work very hard over the years with no hhelp or support of any kind from anyone in the family. We foundb out they are all alcoholics and we have had to shut them out bof our lives as well. My husband blames all our troubles on the fact that we got no help long. Ago....even though we jave done oretty well all by ourselves my propblem is now thatb the economy has slowed. Our business is not what it could be and my husand and I are vhaving more and more fights...I cry a lot. And I am thinking of leaving him. Its not something I want. To do...but - need to if I want to be happy. We Also just bought a new truck and traded my car in on it....so both vehicles are his....how do I leave NowV. I don't have transportation. I need help.