Gotta say... I've only read about three of these posts. I was married for 12 yrs to a "man" who never have me any sexual pleasure. Never had... you know...

Just wondering... of those who haven't had the big "C"... were you sexually abused as children? I read where some say they "go somewhere else."

I was sexually abused, but I can't say I ever "went somewhere else" during sex. And I honestly don't believe it was MY fault. When I changed partners after my divorce... well... WOOOOOOWWWWWW!!!

Thought I'd give ya'll something to think about regarding childhood abuse.