Well, your doctor works for you. Alternatively you could also employ the services of a T, but your pdoc said he'd do some psychotherapy for you too, so he has taken on a double responsibility - double reason to be phoning him!
He knows what to expect of medicines, and I'm sure he has had enough patients to know you are phoning out of desperation. He must know how the average patient responds, and also how other patients respond.
He needs to do something to help you - you have been on the meds long enough for them to be having some kind of effect; that is, if they are the right ones for you. It may be necessary to up your dose of mood stabiliser. Heck, mine was so low, it was a waste of time!

Well, I guess my impatience is why I am going to my third pdoc now. Hoping this one cares; that she'll have an answer.

We are here for you, vent away. I am offering as much of my support as I can.