I have a glimmer of an idea, with the, "progression" of me to my mother-in-law's age, my place in my husband's life, our ages, I was due first with the baby, then she was; mine a Christmas "present" (as in present time) and she a "new year", etc.

My husband and I are coming up on the age she was when she died and I recently found he has a little extra insurance plan for himself for cancer (what she died of). One of the things I'm working on now is growing older and its challenges.