You *need* more face time and more communication than that. For all you know, she has you on the back burner, a "just in case" fall-back guy. A long distance relationship only works when both partners are on the same page. Also, yes, you should be more stable in your own life before pursuing a very serious relationship. I'm not saying that just from a financial aspect. You have to be more solid in terms of who you are and where you are in life in order to be a fulfilling partner to someone else.