We are as well, and we agree. We've known eachother for six years now.
Again, you have some very good points.
Deanna said, "talking to webber was either the creepiest or weridest thing i've ever done, but i will talk to ur "thems" sometime again . i want to understand u better" , which is a good sign. I'm not offended in the least that she thought speaking to me was strange, I would've been in her shoes.
At any rate, we think gently pushing this and reminding her when she has forgotten (or "forgotten") is a step in the right direction, but we still have a feeling of doom about this.
(Webber)Erik
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Originally Posted by anna6
im glad she got back to you and talked to you and is asking questions
thats good not many people understand people with DID its not too
easy for them to accept shes known you for a long time im guessing
and to now be told theres other people inside is gonna take some time
to get used to to accept to know what to do how to act whats ok to
ask whats not she mite go from accepting to not knowing if she can
again if the relationship means alot to your host to you all then you
need to be patient with her keep suggesting to her abot meeting more
of yall but try and understand her also if she cant rite now its a big
thing to accept and understand we have a friend who was told about
us at first she accepted us and was nice even took us for a movie
asked amny questions was sorry she hadnt been there when we were
beign so hurt then she sort of put some distance between us was a
bit sad but then she started talkign to us again said sorry about her
just leavign liek she did was just alot to take in but she loves our host
wanted to learn more about DID and just be there for us and she is
when she can be sorry about rambling on liek this hope things work out
with yalls friend safe hugs if ok
dinah
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