
Jul 19, 2010, 05:15 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2010
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posts: 698
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Please, end it with your husband, you are emotionally abusing him. If you love him as a friend, or even as a husband, why do that to him? Apperantlly, you need help. I am here to support you but you REALLY NEED TO LET HIM GO. Even if you do stop with this FWB, you will probably do it again.
Your dragging your husband along, and hurting him more each day with what you are doing. Forget about your happy place, and do whats right. We all have a happy place, but sometimes we have to just let it go and move on to better areselfs ( Like with drugs). We cannot be happy every second of the day. And you will find that happy place again, but if it means hurting someone that you care for so much, is it worth it? Dont think about just yourself, but think about others around you too.
Please, get help, and tell your husband what you have done, if you want to stay with him try working it out, if not, let him go. He deserves better (No offence) than to get cheated on dont cha think? Nobody deserves to be hurt, or in pain, you dont even deserve to be in this situation you are in, but sometimes we end up in a sticky situation where we dont know what to do.
Not only are you hurting your husband with what your doing, but you are also hurting yourself as you can also see. Sorry if this might have came off a bit harsh, didnt mean for it to sound that way.
Keep us posted and let us know how it goes
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