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BlackCanary, thanks. Um, I actually told this to a T years ago, because she kept telling me that feelings for her weren't sexual and I had to tell her she was wrong. She said it was "sensual", not "sexual."
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Do you think your T was right in her assessment or do you think she was trying to politely tell you, your interpretation was wrong. I have experienced a similar situation, where I felt my T totally misunderstood me. Does that make sense? I am curious if that was your experience.
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I told another T what I told the first one, and she said "hardly ANYONE would EVER tell their T something so graphic". So, I felt ashamed and had to tell my most recent T too. We didn't really discuss it, though. It was in the context of what it's okay to talk about in therapy.
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Your therapist said that? Who would want to share any intimate or sexual feelings with T after a comment like that. Thankfully, I did not consult or talk to anyone about appropriate T protocol, and just tried to be open, honest, and understand.
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So, I think this thread is helping me be less embarrassed, now that I think about it.
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Glad to hear, Rainbow. There is nothing to be ashamed, or embarrassed about. I am glad your T wants to help you!