This is straight up a one sided relationship. You seem to be in love with a fantasy and are happy to let it go that he groomed a minor for sex probably over the net the way he groomed and used you for his perversions. Obviously it wasn't satisfying enough for him and he wanted the real thing. He is a paedophile and I don't understand how you seem to be blaming "this girl".

He didn't have the whole package with you because he used you and then ignored you for 2 years and you let him walk right back in showing him that you could be used when ever he wanted to use you.

I'd ask you Cherry to look at this person without the rose coloured glasses on and see the paedophile that he is. You need to listen to Perna and open your eyes. Don't allow yourself to be simply used by this man who isold enough to be your father and technically the grandfather of the minor he sexually abused