He just came back in Feb and there is almost nothing I would like more than to write this off as PTSD or some trauma from being over seas. Unfortunately he never left the base, he said how bored he was over there and how he wishes he saw some 'action.' I'm still trying.. and I don't know how long I will try. He doesn't want the separation. Honestly I don't know if being together right now will help or hurt things.