Tree -- ever heard the expression, when it rains, it pours? Sometimes life is just like that. Just because you are IN all of these situations, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Right now, you are doing the best you can. Remember that you have skills to cope with conflict. You learned a lot from resolving your conflicts so healthily with your T. So do what you can with your adult skills to resolve these issues, and don't forget to breathe and ground yourself daily, but as these things play out, remember -- it's not you, it's just what's going on right now. It's not you, it's just the sh** that happened to hit the fan. In time, all will smooth over again. This "now" will pass.