How great can this guy be if he keeps giving you the runaround? If I had a guy basically stalking me, like you're doing to this guy (checking out the contents of his car for EIGHT MONTHS?!) I think I'd be a little hesitant to say "Look, leave me alone already." You might go off the deep(er) end and do something completely, undeniably illegal.

Just my

And what's with this "I posted it on a British site" ? Just using us for research?