((((((Peaches))))))

I think you are very brave to send your T that email. Now she will know EXACTLY how you feel. You're not foolish at all! I just wish there were an easy answer. As you know, I'm struggling with similar issues, and I'm getting attached to my new T in the same way. I know she will listen to the parts that want her to love me, but I know she wants me to love them because she can't be there for me in that way. I understand your pain and the pain of the child. I know the rejected feelings of not being reciprocated by the T. It hurts so deep inside.

I don't know what the answer is. I know you've tried very hard to love those parts yourself, and it hasn't worked. I would like to hope that letting those child parts be there totally, instead of presenting your adult self, and totally grieving for what you can't get from T would be the answer. I'm wishing that for myself, too. If not, I am at a loss. However, your T is experienced and wise. Maybe this email will help her decide how she can best help you. I hope your session is a good one.