Yep, that's why I'm taking him to court. It also would be cleared up if he was in a right state of mind and just talked to me instead of making me the enemy. That is the worst part of all of this... the waiting and the lack of professionals help. I should make a correction, the therapist did say I may have some unfavourable issues that would prevent me from being a guardian to my husband but she did offer to write a letter to the judge stating I would make a good guardian for someone who is mentally ill... just not my husband. I don't even get that.