I'm sorry I have not been able to respond to each and every one of you. I really tried and want to! But the thread seems to have gotten away from me. By the time i answer everybody, it will be OLD BORING news from the Peach! I'd hate to leave you sawing logs. . .

A few more things have happened, and my t and i have sort of reconciled now. Still some lingering pain, but we had a frank talk yesterday, and i understand better now why she didn't reply to my attachment-based email last month. I wrote about it in "What I Sent My T."

Wow. . .how can i express my gratitude for all of you who have read my threads and chimed in with your empathy, insights, and suggestions? I've never met any of you, and probably never will, but I've told you more than i've told anyone except my t. I feel close to you.