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Originally Posted by fieryfox
Wow I'm amazed by all the responses and peoples stories and imput. Many thanks 
Rainbowz, I can toyally understand what you were saying with the " FieryFox, your going to wish he was there with you ever second of the day" I actually do feel like this already. It's amazing the way we seem to be on the one brainwave and he'll know how i'm feeling after a bad day at work or in life in general and tell me the best thing to do even if i'm being stubborn and say no !! " he's always there for me, maybe not physically, but in my heart, and I'm willing to wait for anyone who is that commited and loves me so much." Again Rainbowz i feel like this too ... at the end of the day hes far away but only a text message or a call away and that makes me feel closer to him than to people that live in my own locality. I know this sounds totally crazy but its happened more than once that i've picked up the cell to write a text message and before i've finished writing it i see name on the screen calling me.
All i can think about is him. The saying if it feels right, how could it be wrong keeps playing in my mind
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Fieryfox, I was on the same "wavelength" as the the guy in my distance relationship. I knew when he was going to call, even when it was totally out of the blue. There's a funny story about natural phenomenon that showed we were thinking the same thing. Our e-mails and phone conversations talked about deep, meaningful things that we shared.
The problem was that was all he wanted. We were both in our mid 30's and never married. He wanted to be able to tell his friends he had a girlfriend, but he didn't want a physical relationship. We talked about having kids in our e-mails, even discussing names and parenting techniques. After living under the same roof as him for a few months, he decided he didn't want to have kids. I don't want to go into the specifics - that's his responsibility not mine.
In the end, he wanted a close relationship at a distance. The people who say it works have had the close, physical relationship that worked at some point. I never did with him.
I don't want to totally discourage you, but watch for the red flags. There is some truth to "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." Eventually the one in the hand will go to the bush, but it's different when you KNOW it will come back because it has already been in your hand.