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Originally Posted by zooropa
I realized it's just easier to be angry. It feels activating and powerful. Being hurt just feels like being victimized all over again. Being angry, having this righteous indignation, it feels better than being a door mat.
Which is why I won't call her and say "why didn't you call me?". Because that's not something a powerful person would do, that's something that someone begging for table scraps of attention would do, and I'm sick of being that person.
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I beg to differ. Powerful people do call and ask why something that concerns them wasn't done. This is the height of power actually I think, asking people to be accountable.
Hey, good work Zoo!!
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