well....you don't know anything about his life during these many years....but I'm proud of you for the courage to send him an email....that's the positive side of the story and good sign.....

we all are stalker in some point in our life....before Facebook, I was on Orkat, same like FB and it is google product.....just it didn't have any of the FB policies.....it was showing you how many people viewed your profile during the day....and I was surprised with the number....I had nothing on the page for anybody to look really....hehehe....and everyday there were so many people to look at my profile.....another thing was showing who has viewed me....and surprisingly guys were viewing me that I had no clue why they look at my profile.....of course I knew them

That's my point....we are all stalker...just FB is good in term of hiding it!

enjoy....and I hope he gets in touch with you....and if not, you should be happy for being brave to email him.....

take care
Marjan