First I want to say you're a good Mom! I know that our kids come first, but sometimes it's hard when we feel like a kid too! I would have done the same, but I probably would have been angry and out-of-sorts, to say the least. Then running into your former T! Double whammy! If it were me, what I would need is to feel the connection for my current T, to sort of counteract the unexpected meeting with former T. You were triggered, and it's going to hurt. If the feelings don't go away, I think it's a worth a call to your T, if he's in town. You've got to talk care of YOU too.