You are SO better off without this guy, turn around and run, not walk away. Whatever his problems are they aren't yours and you should be thankfull. He's a liar and manipulator of the worst order and you just don't need that...no one needs that,
Rhiannon
PS:

may I ask a favour please? If possible break your posts into paragraphs, I have epilepsy and trying to read all that in one go with no visual break between the words is very very hard...I would really appreciate it if you could break them up...