View Single Post
 
Old Jul 23, 2010, 09:19 AM
bridgie's Avatar
bridgie bridgie is offline
Grand Member
 
Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Iowa
Posts: 822
So recently my baby daddy(who by the way was diagnosed as a sociopath) contacted me after 4 years of not seeing him. He is married and he wanted to get back together I said no and told his wife. At first she was mad at me and said quit wrecking her marriage but she found out he was talking to other exes as well. He finally found one to take him in (he can't be alone and has to have a woman take care of him) so the wife contacted me and said sorry bcz I was just trying to help well he has been saying really nasty nasty things about be and I asked him to stop and I got treated with mean coldhearted replies which means the talk is going to continue. I know I need to not worry what he says cuz its lies but it hurts and bothers me when I only warned his wife and said no. So then his wife wanted to talk to me and I didn't know what to do so I did and we had a very nice polite conversation. She is a little more angry and hurt than I am as I had been done years ago. She left a message for this new girl warning her of what he was saying to both of us. when he wanted me back he was also telling his wife he wanted her and telling this girl he wanted her and who knows how many more. We both know she won't listen but at least its out there I guess the thing I'm having a hard time with is why I'm being hated on when I was not around for years and just cuz I said no and said my feelings I am all these horrible words and things that never happened is getting told to people. I know I shldnt care but it hurts and bothers me. I do have to remember he is a sociopath and nothing he says is worth anything but this is someone I loved for years before I found that out and residual feelings are creeping around my head. Trying so hard to just let it go.