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Jul 23, 2010, 10:43 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
Posts: 1,797
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Originally Posted by Rhiannonsmoon
Anderson is this possible? I know that I feel some peace in there somewhere I don't know who has it but I know who hasn't. The only way I've been able to maintain order is just to let the voices talk and argue and "decide" things at times...But peace does that mean they no long chatter away constantly?
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It is more of an emotionail sense of peace. The inner chatter is more calmer for they are no longer reacting to each other with the pain that they bear for each other. The hardest part is allowing them the space to deal with the pain that binds them and still have a real life. We had to check out of main sociaty for the fact that our main abusers where there and others would use our triggers to make rumors appear more true then false. So we needed to be in places that we could have some control of those that where near us. By doing this we where able to allow those within to learn safety again. The main issues for all those with in us is SAFETY, SAFETY, SAFETY. When those with in do not feel it they atomaticlly do what brought them safety in a disfucntional situation. That why we journal alot and come here. This gives us a safe outlet and be in safe places to work on issues. We are still scared of T but with someone with us we are getting the benifits of a T with out the constant chatter of this person is going to hurt us or have someone else hurt us for not doing what we are told.
We can only do things in baby steps. We have been this way for how long? We can not heal over night that which took years to make us the way we are.
Safe Cyber Hugs from all of us to all of you!
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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