My T has very wide boundaries also. She actually has very firm boundaries, but you know that she's certainly tolerant, and permit(ted) a lot of behaviors that most T's would have squelched.

But it helped me, it really did, I guess it was just stuff that I needed to work through in my own way.

She told me once that she would never be able to give me what I wanted, but that after a while, it wouldn't matter so much. And she was right about that. It doesn't. That neediness is mostly gone.

So, I pass that on to you. (Your T sounds really good to me, BTW. For whatever that's worth.)

Take care,
-Far