Me and my ex were talking tonight about us. We are still in love with each other, yet we have both moved on. I love my bf but I'm not in love with him really. I love them both. We were talking about the things that went wrong for us, and i know it would not be a healthy relationship, but at least I would be in love. I love being with my ex when she's not drinking or using. But I know that I cannot have that. I want her so badly, but she's not willing to settle down with me or have children (adopt or whatever). Well, she's not willing to do that with her current gf. But she's willing to do it with me I think. She wants me to wear our ring again...but can I? I don't know what to do at this point.