I called and left a message for the VA resource coordinator (who was my t at one time and was wonderful). I will tell her exactly what is going on. I think that that would help a lot. They can help me with resources. She is an honest and compassionate person. I will let you know how that goes. I really am counting on help from the VA. Sometimes this situation gets me really down. I think if I kind of structure my weekend with some self care mixed in there. Have to rewash all my clothes in water above 120 degrees and then dry them on hot. This includes all my winter cotton blankets. The exterminator said that he will have to come back and spray any eggs. The crisis hotline person said I might want to check into my caseworker's credentials and I may find some answers there. She also said not to read everything on bed bugs like I am inclined to do when faced with a difficult situation (she is right because it makes me feel hopeless).