one time in therapy, i said something like, "as much as Iike you, in this situation, i like myself more and i went with that.." she was so happy and proud of me - said we could end the session right then and there. i think the point was that i was valuing myself over her - which i guess is like the ultimate goal of therapy. anyway, it does feel strange, but doing what YOU think is right for you is definitely a good thing. be proud of yourself!