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Old Oct 15, 2005, 09:47 PM
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Quay said:
During my last session he told me that some of the stuff that he thought perhaps I'd just been born with, he now thinks perhaps is related to sexual abuse. He said it real serious, even asked if I understood what he was saying to me. He said that he sees things in me, that suggest to him, that I've experienced it. I've never told him about the dreams, although he does know about the guy, and my dislike of soothing voices.

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When your T asked if you understood what he was saying, did you say "yes?" Did you ask him or did he tell you the specifics of the things he sees in you that suggest you've experienced sexual abuse?

I think it's important to understand what your T is referring to. I know it's scary to ask questions about this. I have a lot of unasked questions I wished I would of asked my former T. A year later, those unasked questions still bother me.