(responding to me)

I think I might ask him if there is anything that I could ever do that would make him angry enough to not love me. Maybe starting there will help.

And, WePow, maybe you're right. Maybe I'll just start by asking him the question, see where the discussion goes, and decide then whether or not to tell him right then, or to wait, or what.

I keep thinking - if T stumbled across pics of MY house, would he look? I don't know. I kind of think he might. I know he'll understand the curiosity. But. Ick.

Knowing T, it feels really possible that this won't be a big deal to him at all. But....I don't know part of me is worried it WILL be a big deal.

I guess I also want to point out - hey, anyone can get on your wife's FB page and see your house.

He has a ridiculously beautiful house btw.