My ex BF keeps coming back and wanting to sleep with me. We broke up 4 months ago because he got cold feet about me moving in. Since then, he's been dating other women, but always comes back to me. He keeps telling to be patient. I am out of patients, he is 48 yrs old and has been divorced for 2yrs. I am having trouble moving on. I try to date but can't seem to desire any other man. I wish I did, but I can't. I do still love my ex and I know he is probably using me. But why would he want to hurt me over and over again! So confused and sad!!!