I think it might help you if you look at your intent, tree. You didn't do it to be malicious, you didn't look so that you could find out some information about him to use against him in some way. You didn't even try very hard or go very far out of your way to see these pics. They were just there, and you were just human, and you looked out of curiosity. I feel like your T will understand that, I just wish you wouldn't be so hard on yourself in the meantime.

I will just add that I've done something similar and have never had the courage to tell T. I won't ever tell her. So you are already farther along the road than I am in that regard. You're not bad or stupid or evil, tree.