Hi JessieJames,
I recently broke up with my bf too and I can all to well relate to how memories come rushing back etc, whats worse with mine is that he still calls me etc and thinks its all fine, it would almost be easier if i cut contact with him but his family like me to much to let me do that and i couldnt do that to them. He reckons he is hurting too but if he was why did he get "cold feet" after 7 months?

I recently read this article in a magazine, diary of a break up, and everything was exactly what I was going through, ur not alone girl and I really understand how miserable you feel at time, I came online tonight cause he called me and i couldnt get back to sleep.

Doesn't it suck how people effect us so much?

I think it is HIM with the problem and theres nothing you could have done, I always wonderd the same thing, if I was different would he have loved me more, but ya can't change things I know.

I know everyone says things will be ok, but they will, its just hard to believe that at the start and its ok if u dont believe me, but I bet ur a georgous girl whos so much better than him

Kim xxx

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