Dear sweet Treehouse - from what youve said about your T here is what i think he would say....

oh really, you saw the house? what did you think of it ? are you going to make me an offer? lol

its public knowledge - it wasnt hidden away - you could just have easily found it if you were browsing real estate

I think you are beating yourself up about this and that T will understand and not think its a big deal - you said he knows you loked at hisd facebook - heck if it was private he would have closed it - and most people are curious - i have googled my old T - didnt find anythign - i really wanted a pic so i could put it on my firidge when i go to binge eat and see him and hear him in my head saying - now ask yourself is this going to be good for you? short term gain? long term pain?

I hope you discuss it wiht T my dear sweet friend - im sure T will get rid of your fears

please let us know how it goes ok

big hugs to you

P7