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Originally Posted by Rhiannonsmoon
Hi jiakhan
I read from the 2nd of July to yesterday. In all honesty it sounded like there never was a relationship other than the one you created online. I started to get concerned at what I was reading and was worried that you may be a stalker.
As I read and realised that you certainly have had ideas and support fromo a number of people I came to the decision that you just don't have a clue as to what is really going on in your life. You have several posts regarding this one guy and in each one you give a different indication as to how you are feeling about what happened and how things are panning out.
I honestly urge you to get therapy from a psychiatrist and if they suggest medication I would agree with them. Therapy is a mutli-pronged tool which works best when used correctly and as suggested.
Until your mind is on a level you may have continued troubles in dealing with relationships and in handling relationships realistically
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Dear Rhiannonsmoon,
i really appreciate ur concern for me
i have replied to ur another post as well... yeah i do think that i should seek professional help regarding this but i want to add that i DID go to a psychiatrist and a clinical psychologist too.....and all they told me was that i need to involve myself in other activities,i need to hang out with friends etc etc. well i did all that and i started feeling better but i seriously doubt it. yes, i stalk him on the internet.i still do. i checkout his facebook profile yesterday. im not included in his friends list so i couldnt access his wall and photos but i had a look at his display pic and gosh he's handsome! my heart started aching again. and then at night i messaged him ,to which he hasnt replied and i know that he never will.
im already having difficulty in starting new relationships.... im gonna post a new thread about this new guy. i hope you still have to suggest more regarding my issues. many thanks!