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Originally Posted by jiakhan
we break up n the other person just wouldnt give any valid reasons for his behavior n ignoring. can i anyone here can tell me HOW to forget all that happened with me? plz do come up with some ideas. i'll be grateful.
regards.
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Hi JiaKhan,
Emotions are not like some unwanted trash that we can just dump when we want to. It seems useless to keep on hurting, but it's not actually useless. Your emotions are telling you that "how can you choose to trust such a guy" or "this keeps on happening with me. Why don't you protect me?"
I suspect you may be over-sensitive to rejection; maybe you try to get accepted by other people, ignoring your own warning signals, if any, that this person may not be right for you. I am just speculating to point out to you that you can learn so much about you from this incident and be better at preventing such incidences from happening again.