hi massgirl,

Do you have other fun times... like going places together and other feelings of togetherness? Does your bf ever seem down or depressed? I guess I just wonder if it might be due to depression or stress if you think he may have these tendancies. Also... is there any chance he may have suffered some kind of trauma or abuse? That kind of thing can make being intimate certainly difficult and not really wanted. It does kind of sound like there is something he isn't sharing? Sending good wishes. I hope you both can figure it out.

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