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Originally Posted by Elana05
hi massgirl,
Does your bf ever seem down or depressed? Do you have other fun times... like going places together and other feelings of togetherness? I guess I just wonder if it might be due to depression or stress if you think he may have these tendancies. Also... is there any chance he may have suffered some kind of trauma or abuse? That kind of thing can make being intimate certainly difficult and not really wanted. It does kind of sound like there is something he isn't sharing? Sending good wishes. I hope you both can figure it out.
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Yep we go places all the time and have a lot of fun together. He's definitely not depressed and I don't think he's really stressed. I know that he lost his virginity to a much older woman who he thought he was in love with and she broke his heart. He's only had sex with 3 people including me. He also told me that she was like one person outside the bedroom and another person in the bedroom and that it kind of freaked him out. he was intimidated by me at first cause I was so forward about sex but we've been together for a year and a half now and I wouldn't think that would be an issue anymore. He had an ex-girlfriend who he was totally unattracted to and he would have sex with her basically any time he had the chance. Even doing it in mall parking lots. He's never done anything exciting like that with me. I just don't get it. It makes me feel bad about myself, like it's my fault.