He doesn't seem stressed out or depressed. I know he lost his virginity to an older woman who he was in love with and she broke his heart. He said she was one way outside the bedroom and like an animal in the bedroom which freaked him out at the time. He told me he was intimidated by me when we first started having sex because I'm very forward and sexual and he said it might be because I reminded him of the way she was. But we've been together for a year and a half now and that shouldn't be an issue. Besides the lack of, we do fun things together all the time and really love spending time with each other.

He does watch porn sometimes but really not that often. He doesn't have a lot of time alone at home because of our work schedules. When he loses his erection during sex, he is able to get it back by masturbating and finishing himself off, but that's the only thing that will work in that situation. I'm the one who is adventurous in bed and likes to try new things. He just wants plain old sex when he actually does want it. Also should mention that I'm only the third person he's ever had sex with. He was completely unattracted to his last girlfriend but had sex with her just because he "wanted to get laid so bad". So why with her and not me? He tells me he was completely grossed out by her.