I hate it when people respond to bad news with "everything happens for a reason." So my pain happens for a reason? Wouldn't it be better if it didn't hurt. If it didn't happen. Maybe it feels better for you to say that. To be able to believe it wont happen to you because it happened to me for a reason. But for me it is just filled with pain. Please don't minimize it.

This post is not about people here. People here are wonderful. It is about those people IRL who just don't understand. I just needed to vent.