((((mrsbuttercup))))

Things really are turbulent for you with regards to your relationships with your parents.

One question I would ask is if you have a husband why does your mother need to take care of you financially? Is your husband the reason your father doesn't speak to you or is it because of your relationship with your mother? It all sounds involved and a little confusing...

I hope to help if I can so please don't take my questions as too personal, I'm just trying to work out the dynamics of your relationships,

Rhiannon