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Old Jul 26, 2010, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by vjdragonfly View Post
I'm stressed out today. My sister's husband told her it didn't love her anymore and he doesn't want to be with her. They have been married over 20 years and he has been in the military. She has endured the the hell of being a military wife and he is just coming up on retirement. It has been over seas for almost three years now and now that he is back he wants to throw this at her. To say the least she took it badly. We had to take her to the hospital last night and they admitted her into the psych ward. I am so angry for what her husband has done to her. I can feel her pain and I know the anguish that she has to be going through right now. I also know the guilt she is probably feeling right now. I want to reach out and take all the pain away. I really don't know what to do other then be there for her. I just can't help feeling down because of this. I want to fix it, but I know I can't. I feel so helpless right now. My anxiety is going through the roof.
HI I was dumped by my husband too he moved me here to Iowa then a month later ditched me when i went grocery shopping ! he left a note that said bye went back to Fresno !!! needless to say I was in the hospital for the same thing as your sister . I think what helped me most was to have someone to sit by someone to puit there arm around me when tv was on someone to lean on until I could deal with it but its something Im still not over and its gonna be 5 years in november . I just cant stop remembering how much I love him and how he left me like a coward.
So let your sister snuggle up to you and lean on you til shes better it helped me !
Thanks for this!
vjdragonfly