TreeHouse! I think being curious about your T and his life is normal!

I too crossed a boundary by looking my T up but in FB--Although I could see what friends and family he was connected to he was pretty good about locking down his "wall". Um, his kids weren't so careful. I am happy you told your T, I haven't yet. I probably should. In the 20 plus years I've seen him he has never uttered his children's names, although he has mentioned them briefly.

I think I know why---reading about his kids makes me jealous. I want him to myself. I hate that he will never love me like he loves them. I don't have many triggers anymore but I guess this is one.