tree, I agree with 78, he must have some idea that you looked at her page, or how else did you explain seeing the house listing? I think seeing the house involved his family, too, and he didn't freak out about that. I'm also thinking of the other times he hasn't left a message. You're right, it's because he can't. But that doesn't mean the 'can't' is because of you. It could be a lot of other things.

I'm not sure I'm helping. I'm sorry. I just want you to feel better.