(((rainbow)))

one more thought.. maybe you can do like 15 min talking, 60 min emdr, and 15 min talking. well, not exactly that, but my point is that perhaps you can leave some time at the end to talk and reconnect. like blurt out that stuff you want to in the begining.. let it "sit" in the room while you do the emdr.. and then maybe re-visit it at the end..

ps. what time is your session? (eastcoast time) i'll send you some positive thoughts then!