sorry to say that, but it looks like you are opening up a can of worm....why do you do that? just cut it in the past....both of you are married....don't ruin your marriage for some illusions....he did that to you and he will do that again....he's not even faithful to his wife now....that's sad!

I would strongly advice you to stop your communication with him.....and stick with the loving husband that you have....

Do you have any kids?