i have a 15 yr old daughter in jail. i do not want this child to return home. my hsb. is insistent that she should return home as soon as possible and always be welcome here. this child physically and verbally abuses me, steals from her older siblings, has written out detailed plans on how she intends to murder us, etc. etc..my hsb. believes everything she says even in the face of proof that she is lying...this conflict (of shall she come home or not)between us is tearing the marriage apart...my hsb says he will NOT compromise on his position altho he is happy for me to do so....we have been married for over 30 yrs. my depression is spiriling between medium to suicidal. i have seen my shrink,but can't go into the psych hosp. or i will lose my job...which i can't afford to do becuz my hsb is considering leaving me...