You have really good advice here AmieW. Guilt relationships are not the ideal thing to have in your life; and look at the usual guilt trips we have...family members...that is where the guilt starts and as an adult you don't have to do the guilt trips any longer.
Tell them with consideration that you just do not feel the connection as Elana has offered; it really is the best route in the long run...the only other way is avoidance and that isn't really that healthy,
Rhiannon
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you
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