Hi Muffhie,

I have a similar problem - but there are issues behind my thoughts - Like Rhiannon asks, is there a cause for your worries?

I do believe that you can't put all guys into the same 'box'. They are different and if you find a nice, good, kind and gentle one then maybe you will feel differently...

Not sure if this is good advice but (LOL I've done it in the past) play hard to get, don't give in to what they want... do only what YOU want... seems to make guys stay around much longer..