<font color="purple"> Tomorrow we ( I, really) have to write an email to someone who we have considered to be a safe friend for a while now. Over the last two weeks this person has become very, very unsafe for us. She has stepped all over our boundaries. We have never had to do this before...boundaries have never been an issue...ever. In fact, when I talked to our T about this earlier, she agreed that one of the big things we have worked on is LOOSENING up our boundaries, particularly with her and our partner. I guess I am confused about how this happened. NO ONE has ever done this before. Has anyone ever experienced this? How did you handle it?

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